fate, destiny, or simply a coincidence?

Yesterday she told me everything..

The things that i once heard from him..

but of course, in different perspective.. hers..

she also told me her real thoughts, the thinking she once had.

the thoughts that make me feel.. not able to stand still hearing it (am i too protective on him?)..

than a thought crossed my mine..

so this whole story of life is a fate, a destiny, or simply a coincidence?

It was started from firm discussion between us, about feelings, about how i don't understand how deep their feelings are, and how i can't accept this because i do know how it feels to have a deep feelings toward others, especially towards him..

i do understand the passion they have, the passion i have.. same.. but different in our own ways..

of course i didn't tell her anything about my feelings, i use metaphores, and sharing some true events that finally convince her..

well it was her fault because her understanding about love before is never is love..